Comments on: How to Stop Yelling at Your Children http://manageyourchild.com/blog/how-to-stop-yelling-at-your-children/ Tips & Advice to Manage Your Child's Anger Effectively Sat, 18 Jun 2011 09:50:45 +0000 hourly 1 http://wordpress.org/?v=3.1.3 By: Japheth Amayo http://manageyourchild.com/blog/how-to-stop-yelling-at-your-children/comment-page-1/#comment-9250 Japheth Amayo Fri, 27 Aug 2010 14:16:12 +0000 http://manageyourchild.com/blog/?p=56#comment-9250 In my current age of being 33 years of age and a married middle aged man in the Republic of Kenya, I fully do believe that I understand why many children run away from home and become thieves, alcoholics, prostitutes among other things. And also I've noted it for a fact that definately one is psychologically affected when their parents tends to rudely or poorly talk to them as if they mean nothing to them because of their disabilities. In my current age of being 33 years of age and a married middle aged man in the Republic of Kenya, I fully do believe that I understand why many children run away from home and become thieves, alcoholics, prostitutes among other things. And also I’ve noted it for a fact that definately one is psychologically affected when their parents tends to rudely or poorly talk to them as if they mean nothing to them because of their disabilities.

]]> By: Kritika http://manageyourchild.com/blog/how-to-stop-yelling-at-your-children/comment-page-1/#comment-6374 Kritika Wed, 22 Apr 2009 16:05:16 +0000 http://manageyourchild.com/blog/?p=56#comment-6374 Kids love it when parents act "sensible". They define sensibilty as "dont yell, dont nudge, dont bug". Its hard for parents to follow this definition....and especially mothers. We women tend to be eternally on the edge. Your victory is a huge inspiration. Yes, once you conciously make an effort to change yourself you develop insight and control during seemingly "uncontrollable" and "reflex" actions. We can try one more thing while handling kids and adoloscents. We could get into their shoes. EMPATHY. We were all like this when we were young. I never liked doing the dishes....and i though my mom delegated this duty to me because she wasnt capable of doing it herself. I know I know. Stupid me. But trust me....kids CAN think this way. Hence. Lets empathise and make activities more fun and enjoyable. Instead of asking them to do the dishes...ask them to be grown ups and prove themselves capable of handling adult life. Dishes come along with night outs. Give them something in return. And when things dont work out the way you have planned out....... empathise. Have i been toooo friendly.....did i become very strict.....was i being reasonable? Dont see the situation from a mother's point of view........see it from your kid's eyes........ cheers! Kids love it when parents act “sensible”. They define sensibilty as “dont yell, dont nudge, dont bug”. Its hard for parents to follow this definition….and especially mothers. We women tend to be eternally on the edge.
Your victory is a huge inspiration. Yes, once you conciously make an effort to change yourself you develop insight and control during seemingly “uncontrollable” and “reflex” actions.

We can try one more thing while handling kids and adoloscents. We could get into their shoes. EMPATHY. We were all like this when we were young. I never liked doing the dishes….and i though my mom delegated this duty to me because she wasnt capable of doing it herself. I know I know. Stupid me. But trust me….kids CAN think this way. Hence. Lets empathise and make activities more fun and enjoyable. Instead of asking them to do the dishes…ask them to be grown ups and prove themselves capable of handling adult life. Dishes come along with night outs. Give them something in return. And when things dont work out the way you have planned out……. empathise. Have i been toooo friendly…..did i become very strict…..was i being reasonable?
Dont see the situation from a mother’s point of view……..see it from your kid’s eyes……..

cheers!

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